Girlfriends---such fun!

Soooooo, here I am thinking back to the fabulous girls weekend I had a few weeks back. Too short, non the less, but a great time.

Two of my girlfriends flew to Portland(from Tampa)on a beautiful clear evening. The kind of night you hope for since Portland's weather is so unpredictable. The weatherman can not even get it right.

Anyway, I saw them at the bottom of the escalator. The sight of their familiar faces brought on so many emotions. I was so greatful that my friend chose to come here to celebrate her 40th birthday. I thought "wow, are you sure? It is so far to go for such a short time". Despite the time frame, it is so amazing how the time went in slow motion and each minute remains a clear memory.

Deep down I was afraid the weekend would not live up to their expectations, if they had any. I was so excited and just wanted them to enjoy themselves. Although, they probably did not know I was excited. For those of you who know me, I do not show excitement outwardly.

I could be jumping up and down inside but you see me as you usually would. Such a shame, I know, but it's just the way it is. Now I can laugh pretty good. So hard, in fact, that I can not catch my breath and tears roll down my face. I love those moments.

Anyway, I think my friends wanted to get an idea about how my new life was going and to see that I was ok. I was so blown away by their interest. This really put things into perspective.

Girlfriends are an amazing asset to one's life. Especially those you have had for years. The things you can say, they way you laugh together, how silly you act, all the memories that are reflected upon, and the simplicity of just knowing each is there for the other. Being with them made me feel so alive and refreshed.

Each of us live in different states but it has not affected our relationship. We talk as if we are together all the time - with ease and without restraint. It is great to be surrounded by those who tell you like it is. No hidden agenda or thoughts.

You shop, you can obsess, you enjoy a glass of your favorite adult beverage, and not think of much else but the pleasure you get out of being together. Of course, you talk about your children and sometimes your husbands but mostly the true time together is what is so valued and cherished.

Girlfriends bounce ideas off each other. We like to make sure we are not completely losing our minds whether it is something complicated or stupidly simple. It is amazing, the things we go through. Woman have a special connection-especially with those who just understand you - for who you are. We are all unique and complicated and when you find that special friend or group of friends it is not to be taken lightly.

I enjoy my old friends and my new ones. I have come to realize that woman relate to each other and without that you can feel kind of lost. Keeping a friendship alive takes time and energy but it is worth every minute. I respect those close to me and am dedicated to those who enrich my life. Being real and dependable is the key to everlasting, meaningful friendships. Each friend has the ability to guide us, make us a better person, and even teach us new ways of doing things.

I thank my two friends for traveling clear across the country to see me. We had a weekend that will never be forgotten and the memory will always be tucked away inside my heart. I think they have a new value for Portland and can see why I enjoy it so much.

Now, go take the time to plan a day with your "girls".